Nearly Hair
“Nothing, is what it appears to be, when it's only with your eyes you see.”
― N'Zuri Za Austin

Independence

Friday, August 27, 2010

 

The day I popped out of my mom’s womb, she must have been pushing to Destiny’s Child Independent woman.

I feel as if that song was spoken into my life. I will and forever will be independent woman.

I have fended for myself, so to speak, ever since I started to receive an allowance. And then even more so after I was granted my first job.

You see, I never liked the feeling of depending on people… Whether it was depending on someone to take me to school or even someone to buy Shelia (My stomach) food, I always wanted to do things my way!

MY WAY OR THE HIGH WAY! I feel as though it may be good to depend on others because that is how trust is implemented, but I can’t suppress the independence in me.

Being sovereign is not a bad thing at all in my eyes. It shows ambition and self proclamation.

I can apply being independent to anything in my life even my hair. I am independent from the thoughts that bound me to societal holds. I need no one to hold my hand when I do my hair, because I know exactly how I want my hair and in which ways I want it styled.

I am independent from the wiles of the world. I need not the world to be happy but Jesus.

I am independent from the grip of men. Yes their coy sexual ways! It can be so easy to fall for a guy and want to be his all. Although I was pulled from him, he doesn’t need to be my supplement but compliment me. You can Do Bad all by yourself!

{I just had to rant or maybe rave about me…so there you have it lol. Yall Feel the same way? Comment Bellow.}

Your Image Name

Post a Comment

Leave me a love note!

© Nearly Hair. Design by Fearne.